It is very important for every child to have the upbringing of both parents. And the role of dad is no less important in the family theater of life.
Dads are different. Their behavior depends on the temperament embedded by nature. Having determined the temperament, you can characterize each of them. So, you need to imagine the situation that a child and cereal are handed over to dad, and there is a pan on the stove. So, the behavior of the father ...
Dad is a choleric. Chaos in the kitchen. The porridge flows out, dad tries to make sure that the child does not get dirty, but in the end, everything and everything is in the porridge.
Dad is sanguine. Dad plays with a laughing child, talks on the phone at the same time, a good mood reigns throughout the apartment. But the smell of burnt porridge still reigns.
Phlegmatic person. A child chews on shoes in the hallway. The porridge boils away. Dad sits at the computer and says: "Now, now I'll cook."
Dad is melancholic. Dad says that he knew how to cook, but for some reason he doubted. And the kid misses his mother already. And he is calm somehow - did he get sick.
So, in what situation is dad most recognized, this type of temperament is worth considering in more detail.
Dad is phlegmatic. The nervous system is in perfect order. It can be called balanced. However, it is endowed with a certain slowness. Actions and thoughts are slow. On the face of such a dad, you will never determine emotions - joy or sadness in his soul. He moves slowly, regally. Always walks with a stroller the same route. Talks a little. In a conversation with a baby, he is unlikely to find a topic quickly and will worry about it. It may seem lazy from the outside, but in fact it does not consider it necessary to spend energy on non-essential activities. Such a man switches from one thing to another for a long time. He needs some time for this. But such dads do things perfectly. He does not welcome new theories in raising his child, but prefers to use grandmother's methods. He loves order and regime, to which he tries to accustom the baby from childhood.
Dad is a choleric. nervous system can be described as unbalanced. Such a dad acts quickly, sharply, changeable and quick-witted. His conversation is accompanied by gestural movements. After emotional outbursts, he is very worried if he offended someone and swears that he will try to keep emotions in himself. Of course, until next time. Criticism is not accepted. And sincerely believes that he is the best dad.
Dad is sanguine. This one prides himself on his poise. Cheerful and most often located in good mood. He does everything at the same time. Easily picks up new views in education and tries to implement them. But he lacks organization and perseverance. Such a father is very sociable. Walking, he will get acquainted with everyone he meets. Can't stand monotonous tasks. And he tries to approach everything creatively.
Melancholy dad. Such a dad is vulnerable and impressionable. His movements are constrained, and facial expressions are poor. The voice is quiet with occasional stutters. This is because he always doubts. When going for a walk with a child, he will spend at least an hour getting ready. Such a dad will never miss a single spot on the baby's body. After studying all the books and diagnosing manifestations. He seems to know more than the pediatrician. He is a very devoted family man. He will not succeed as a leader, but he is a perfect performer. To cope with any case, he needs clear instructions.
Summing up, we can say that for any child, both mom and dad are equally important - there is no degree of more or less importance. Therefore, dear women, be wise and flexible. Based on these rough descriptions, know what to expect from your husbands and adapt to them. This does not mean that you need to bend and suffer, it means that you need to be able to flow from one state to another, like a river, and at the same time maintain family life. This is possible and will be easy if love and respect reign in your family, and this is initially the work of a woman!
Children's literature knows different dads. Dads who can’t refuse anything, and dads who themselves need to be educated. There are harsh and strict dads, soft and good-natured dads ... Dads who understand from the first word, and dads with whom it is not so easy to find mutual language, but if you still succeed, then they become the very, very best friends.
If we were to rank the best, most understanding, most loving fathers in children's books, we might never be able to pick a winner. Ready for anything for his daughter, Longren, a caring and loving father, or Mr. Penderwick, who skillfully finds a common language with as many as four daughters?
Viktor Golyavkin's autobiographical story "My Good Dad" is, in fact, about all the "good dads", about filial and fatherly love, and also about growing up. The father in this book is a real example for the son, an example of kindness and sincere person always open to others. He is a musician, not a practical person, but with an incredibly broad soul. In 1941 he went to war, and since then only rare letters connected him with his son - until they stopped coming. But he seems to be always there. Petya wants dad to be proud of him, this measures his actions, trying to be honest, sympathetic, strong.
Dr. Yanovsky from the trilogy "The Road Goes Away" by Alexandra Brunstein, despite the fact that he is an incredibly busy person, always finds time to pay attention to his daughter. He is an example of a father who treats a child with respect as an adult. Sometimes he is too strict, but this severity is a consequence of care, the desire to raise good man, honest, kind, sympathetic. And little Sasha, in fact, understands everything: it is not for nothing that she is most frank with her father, it is to him that she trusts her most serious thoughts.
A similar attitude of the daughter to the father is noticeable in the book "Where's Dad?" Yulia Kuznetsova. Only he can trust her feelings, experiences, thoughts. He does not laugh at her, does not torment her with moralizing, but it is from him that you can always hear words of approval or advice in difficult times. And he is the only person in the family who does not try to impose his opinion on her. On an unfair accusation, her father ended up in prison - and although there are many relatives around the main character, she feels incredible loneliness, and finding the strength to somehow live on is incredibly difficult. But there are their meetings, memories, letters with stories sent from prison, and most importantly, the expectation, the hope that all this will certainly end, and they will again have happy life together.
But Deniska's father, about whom Viktor Dragunsky wrote, seems to be not quite an adult. He is so cheerful that even his mother sometimes reproaches him for his frivolity. He is a master at making up stories and loves all sorts of undertakings and games. Deniska's dad knows how to approach the upbringing of his son - how to say what to do, how to point out a mistake. And all this - not in the abstract words "should" and "should not", but through the prism of their own experience.
The dad from Anne Westley's "Dad, Mom, Grandmother, Eight Kids and a Truck" approaches any problem without fear - and with enthusiasm, and most importantly, with calm humor that allows you to resolve any problems. He is not just a jack of all trades, but also a staunch supporter of compromises and a peaceful solution to all problems, and this is very difficult to achieve when there are not two, not three, but eight children. However, he succeeds.
Alexander Raskin told funny stories about how dad was little. Like any boy, dad once also played pranks, made mistakes, didn’t want to be treated or shied away from classes, but he studied, changed, discovered something new for himself - and, in the end, became a great dad. After all, that's how it all happens. But his handwriting remained not very good - he was too lazy to write sticks in childhood.
Ruth Gannett also has a book about a young dad, it's called Dad's Dragon. It is about a traveler dad, a real adventurer. He ran away from home on an adventure and went to the Wild Island, not afraid of either rhinos or lions, to find there ... a real dragon.
But even if dads appear on the pages of the book not as the main characters, their image is always important. For example, Pippi Longstocking's father - she only talks about him with delight, because he is a real Negro king! We - at least the matured readers - understand that she is just dreaming. However, her memories and fictional stories about her father-captain, the Storm of the Seas, and their travels around the world are imbued with warmth and sincerity. And then, for sure, it is because of him that she is such an incredible inventor, and thanks to him - strong, independent, resolute.
Astrid Lindgren has created many very interesting images of fathers - emotional, attached and sometimes even pampering their children. Robber Mattis from "Roni the Robber's Daughter" adores his daughter - and allows her anything. He is ready to come to terms even with the fact that Roni is friends with the son of the chieftain of an enemy band of robbers, as well as to accept that she does not like the life of robbers. The father-king from the fairy tale "Mio, my Mio" is the embodied ideal for a boy who considered himself an orphan until the age of nine, before entering a magical land. The most difficult test of their feelings is the battle that Mio goes to, because at some point he is sure that his father left him, that he does not love him. However, the flash of resentment goes away - because love is stronger than both evil knights and temporary difficulties.
In "Let the Polar Bears Dance" by Ulf Stark main character, an ordinary teenager named Lasse, found himself at a crossroads of sorts. After his parents divorced, he stayed with his mother and her new husband. Relations with his stepfather are developing well, but gradually Lasse notices behind him that he is much more like his father, that they have the same temperament. And Lasse makes a choice - he returns to his father, maybe not as successful as his stepfather, a little clumsy, reminiscent of a bear, but on the other hand - a person with whom he really has complete mutual understanding.
Children who want to learn more about their dads should definitely get Grigory Oster's "Papamamalogy" and Oleg Bundur's "How to Raise a Dad" in their scientific library on parenting. Here everything becomes clear - how to deal with screaming adults, accustom them to their own pampering, as well as how to feed them and how to wake them up in the morning ...
The book "I'm educating dad" by Mikhail Baranovsky is a whole "novel of educating" a parent. Dad in this book is shown through the eyes of the boy Marik, inquisitive and active, ready to achieve his goal by any means. And this dad is cheerful, knowledgeable and experienced, but terribly stubborn. You have to try your best to deal with it. But Marik succeeds, so even if dad is not perfect, they are still real friends.
Looking at many children's books, you understand that one of the important duties of any dad is to know the answers to all questions. From "what is good and what is bad" to "why don't zebras roller skate". And dad is a person next to whom it is never scary - which the daughter of the Gruffalo knows well. And the most important thing about dads is that they love you
Oksana Soblukova
Under the march of I. Strauss, the children enter the hall.
Dear guys, guests! Today we are gathered in this hall to celebrate a special holiday Defender of the Fatherland Day On February 23, all of Russia will congratulate men - dads, brothers, grandfathers on the birthday of our army.
Our Army Day today
She is not stronger in the world.
Hello defenders of the people!
Russian Army.
Children (in chorus).
the same child.
Ships sail into space.
Our Army -
the same child is a child.
Peace and labor on the planet.
Our Army -
the same child is a child.
We have a few more years
But we are all great.
And we're walking in step
Like soldiers in the Army.
Song "Together it's fun to walk".
Leading:
And now, I'll ask you guys questions, and you try right on them reply:
Is our army strong? (Yes)
Does she protect the world? (Yes)
Will the boys go to the army? (Yes)
Will they take the girls with them? (Not)
Are there tankers in the army? (Yes)
Are there miners in the army? (Not)
Today we celebrate the holiday? (Yes)
Congratulations moms and girls! (Not)
World the most important thing in the world? (Yes)
Even kids know this? (Yes)
Leading:
But we know perfectly well that defenders are not only those who serve or work in the army. Of course, for women, for the family, these are, first of all, men, dads. And now we invite dads to come out here to check how well they know their children. Competition "Find your child"
Dads are different:
He is silent, and he screams,
He sometimes sings
The one at the TV sticks out
He sometimes hugs
The warmth of strong hands
He sometimes forgets
That he is his son's best friend.
Dads are different...
And when the days go by
Their sons grow up
Dot to dot, just like them.
Dramatization of the poem. Rudenko
"Most right dad» .
(Children take the necessary attributes, elements of costumes and show sketch.)
Under a big, big chestnut tree
In the very back of the yard
The boys gathered in a crowd -
A heated debate has been going on since morning.
Says my friend Sergei:
My dad is the boss here.
He is now the director of the firm.
Selling vegetables!
But when your dad
Fly by plane
The pilot will lead
The pilot is my dad. Here! -
This was stated by Valerka,
But Gleb answered him:
What are you arguing guys?
My dad bakes bread for everyone!
Here Irishka approaches them:
And you are completely wrong!
At least my dad is not a director,
But certainly everyone needs it!
He's right on the border
The service is difficult.
He guards the whole country
And keep our peace!
All children.
Dads are important,
All kinds of dads are needed
Leading:
Guys, remind me who we congratulate today? (answers children)
That's right, all men (dads, grandfathers, brothers).
My dad is handsome
And strong as an elephant.
Beloved, considerate
He is affectionate.
I look forward to
Dad from work.
Always in my pocket
He brings something.
My dad is resourceful
Smart and brave.
He can handle even the toughest jobs.
He is also a naughty, mischievous and prankster.
With him every day
Turns into holiday.
Olya sings a song "Dad"
Leading: And now I invite two couples to compete in the ability to negotiate for the contest "Collect clothespins"
My dad is a wizard.
He is the nicest.
He instantly turns
For what you ask.
He can become a clown
Tiger, giraffe.
But the best
He knows how to be a dad.
I will hug him and quietly whisper:
my daddy i love you
I love it hard!
You are the most caring
The most native,
You are kind, you are the best
And you are only mine!
My dad has gone away.
me without dads frankly, it's not easy.
Dad, if he wants, he can sing a song,
If it's cold, warm it up with your warmth.
me without dads have a hard time falling asleep.
I will rise and quietly stand at the door,
Dear dad, come back soon.
My dad is the strongest
He can fold the table.
And I want like dad
To be just as strong.
My dad wears glasses
Like all professors.
So, dad is smart,
Which means I'm smart!
My dad loves mom
Kiss all the time
And I want the same
Become loving!
Don't believe? Check it out!
Dad and I are friends.
And I look like dad
And dad is on me!
At dad no son, y fathers two daughters,
Two girls, me and my sister.
We play with dolls, wash handkerchiefs
And we whisper with her until the morning ...
At dad no son, but how would you like
Him with someone to drive the ball,
Build a rocket, go fishing
Men's problems to understand ...
At dad no son Well, what can you do
Two girls came out in a row.
And daddy sighs and steals
Neighbor's sympathetic look.
At dad no son Well, no, you don't have to...
Accept congratulations from us
Can't be dads are happier in the world,
Than a father with two daughters.
Our boys are still kindergarten, but years will pass, and each of them will choose for himself speciality: someone will become a pilot, sailor, tanker, policeman, fireman. But for this need learn to be resilient and courageous.
And now we will have a competition and see how smart you all are.
Let's play?
Suddenly Antoshka enters the hall with a big spoon. (dancing to the song "Antoshka")
Leading:
And who complained to us?
Antoshka:
Antoshka has come to visit you!
Here's my big spoon!
I love to have fun
Especially to eat
Lie on the grass
And watch a cartoon!
What the your holiday is here,
Songs and excitement?
Where is the cookie, where is the cake,
Where is the treat?
Leading:
Actually, we're here
Do not drink tea with jam,
And show your prowess!
To grow strong!
To join the army.
Antoshka:
Prowess? What's this? Delicious?
Pies with cabbage?
Compote or jelly?
I love everything, believe me!
Leading:
Well no! Get in line soon!
We'll take care of you now!
The game "Who spins the hoop longer"
Guys, you are great!
Antoshka:
Blimey! Knocked sides! This work is not easy!
(Spreads the rug, lays down).
Well, now I'm better off!
I value my own health!
Leading:
You are a future soldier!
How do you keep the machine?
Muscles are strong needed,
Hands are strong important.
Get closer to the guys
Hold on tight to the rope!
The game "Tug of War" with Antoshka.
Antoshka:
Hands are aching, feet are aching,
My health worries!
Nothing, it always happens if you do not play sports for a long time.
And now we invite dads to compete. The game "Fast Horse"
Leading:
Now let's have a visual lesson.
Which one of you is the best shooter?
The game "Hit the target"
After children the hit is made by Antoshka).
Antoshka:
But I did not miss, and also hit the target!
Leading:
Well done, Antoshka!
You are worthy of praise!
Here are our girls (boys in disguise) want to congratulate all the defenders, including you, Antoshka, and sing ditties about sports.
We are sports guys
We live together, have fun
And sports ditties
We'll sing to you today!
If you want to be healthy
Do not get sick and do not mope,
Then remember the sport again,
He must be loved!
If the boy is chasing the ball
In the morning in a clean field,
This boy, we know for sure
Become a footballer!
The wind is circling the birches,
And I'm getting hot:
I run barefoot in the cold -
I do sports.
Two flowers bloom
silver color,
Oh, do not become with such a sprout
Me a basketball player!
If you play sports
Get fit and tall
And swing on the horizontal bar
You won't be like a bag!
Antoshka:
I am attentive and learn very quickly.
Thank you guys for science, for the game.
Being hardy and agile does not interfere with anyone.
Well, now I have to go, see you soon kids!
Leading. A lot of good words sounded today in honor of our army, military personnel, dads, brothers. And in conclusion, our children will sing a song "About dad"
And for dads, the children painted their portraits
"Kindergarten No. 7" Cherry "
Project on:
"We need different dads"
Done by: Educators
2 junior group №5
Kataeva M.S., Mamaeva T.E.
Solikamsk 2016
PROJECT "DIFFERENT DADES ARE NEEDED"
Project relevance
Recently, children, as well as adults, are so passionate about television and computer games that they forget about joint games and hobbies, about the necessary communication with each other. Children's games in kindergarten, their conversations with each other helped to see a big problem: all children's issues are most often solved by the mother, the mother satisfies both the cognitive interests of the children and the lack of emotional communication. Today's men have become fashionable to scold. They were brought up in an atmosphere of loss of paternal authority, their infantilism leads to the fact that children grow up practically without a father. The non-participation of the father in upbringing is a great misfortune of our time, because the father's role is beyond the strength of mothers. For a child, the feeling of being close to a father (or another close man) is a feeling of strength, which, while protecting, gives a feeling of invulnerability. If the mother is the source of life, then the father is the source of strength, the first elder friend. For a long time children cannot distinguish between physical and mental strength, but they perfectly feel the latter and are drawn to it. It is necessary to develop in children love and respect for both parents, to promote the development of harmony in the relationship between children and parents.
Objective of the project
Project objectives
Project type: cognitive - creative
By subject area
"Artistic and aesthetic development" " cognitive development» « Speech development» « Physical development»
Composition- group
By duration
Project participants- junior pupils preschool age, teachers of the institution, parents.
Pupils:
Parents:
teachers:
Form of the final event
Stages of project implementation
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RESULT |
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Preparatory |
Choice of project topic Awareness of the problem situation. Development of the project, planning of educational and educational activities. Selection of material (visual - didactic, fiction) |
Project theme. Goals, tasks. Consultation for parents "The role of the father in the upbringing of the child" Perspective - thematic plan. |
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Basic |
Project implementation. |
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Final |
Final event. |
Project Implementation Plan.
Stage 1 Preparatory
Stage 2 Main
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Speech development cognitive development |
Questions session. "We need different dads" Poetry reading: "Like a dad," |
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Physical development |
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Artistic and aesthetic development |
Stage 3 Final
CONCLUSION:
Application No. 1.
Reminder for parents
"HOW TO GROW A DEFENDER?"
Dear dads, remember!
The boy wants to be good, but does not like being punished directly, he is annoyed by words! Educate by deed and personal example!
If the father is always dissatisfied, impatient and irritable towards his son, the boy will feel insecure and awkward not only in his company, but also among men and boys.
The boy needs the experience of success. He can buy it with your help. Create, invent situations for your son, where he will undoubtedly succeed. Notice the success of your son, praise him.
If you want to achieve something from your son, you need to instill it in him, which means that it is best to “infect” with your work. You can only achieve what you do yourself.
Boys don't fewer girls need parental affection and bodily contact with them. A father can pat a teenager on the shoulder, push him around, fight. Children who regularly see displays of love and affection from their parents have a more developed sense of inner security. Father and son should have their own men's secrets. Joint walks, hobbies, fishing, etc. make the son feel that he is "my boyfriend".
Annex 2
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"The project "We need different dads!""
Department of Education of the Administration of the city of Solikamsk
Municipal Autonomous Preschool educational institution
"Kindergarten No. 7" Cherry "
Project on:
"We need different dads"
Done by: Educators
2 junior group №5
Kataeva M.S., Mamaeva T.E.
Solikamsk 2016
PROJECT "DIFFERENT DADES ARE NEEDED"
Project relevance
Recently, children, as well as adults, are so passionate about television and computer games that they forget about joint games and hobbies, about the necessary communication with each other. Children's games in kindergarten, their conversations with each other helped to see a big problem: all children's issues are most often solved by the mother, the mother satisfies both the cognitive interests of the children and the lack of emotional communication. Today's men have become fashionable to scold. They were brought up in an atmosphere of loss of paternal authority, their infantilism leads to the fact that children grow up practically without a father. The father's non-participation in upbringing is a great misfortune of our time, because mothers cannot afford the father's role. For a child, the feeling of being close to a father (or another close man) is a feeling of strength, which, while protecting, gives a feeling of invulnerability. If the mother is the source of life, then the father is the source of strength, the first elder friend. For a long time children cannot distinguish between physical and mental strength, but they perfectly feel the latter and are drawn to it. It is necessary to develop in children love and respect for both parents, to promote the development of harmony in the relationship between children and parents.
Objective of the project
Creation of conditions and a system of work to maintain the traditions of a respectful attitude towards the father, to consolidate traditional family foundations.
Project objectives
Formation of a positive emotional attitude of children towards their father;
To increase the activity and interest of parents in organizing games and communicating with children different ages, and gender.
Raising love and respect for your family members.
Contribute to the formation of partnership and cooperation between father and child in the family.
Arouse in children the desire to protect their family and their homeland.
To expand the knowledge of children about the defenders of the fatherland.
Project type: cognitive - creative
By subject area
"Social and communicative development"
"Artistic and aesthetic development"
"Cognitive Development"
"Speech Development"
"Physical development"
Composition– group
By duration fleeting (15.02.16-26.02.16)
Project participants- Pupils of primary preschool age, teachers of the institution, parents.
Estimated result of the project
Pupils:
1. Increasing interest in joint games and hobbies of children and their parents.
2. Formation of ideas about the types of troops of the Russian army, about those who guard and defend our Motherland.
Parents:
1. Active and interested participants in the project are focused on developing the child's need for knowledge, communication with adults, through joint games.
teachers:
Raising the professional level.
Form of the final event
sports holiday"Future Defenders"
Intended product of the project Exhibition of creative works of children (portraits of dads, stories about their dads “My dad is the most, most ...”); greeting cards for dads, portfolio page.
Stages of project implementation
| STAGE | RESULT |
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| Preparatory | Choice of project topic Awareness of the problem situation. Development of the project, planning of educational and educational activities. Selection of material (visual - didactic, fiction) | Project theme. Goals, tasks. Consultation for parents "The role of the father in the upbringing of the child" Prospectively - thematic plan. |
| Basic | Project implementation. | Implementation of planned activities. |
| Final | Presentation of the joint activity product | Final event. |
Project Implementation Plan.
Stage 1 Preparatory
| Social and communicative development Speech development cognitive development | Development of an entertainment script for children. Planning activities with children: cognitive - speech; artistic - creative; game; joint activities of parents with children. A selection of material for productive activities. | Pick up materials, toys, attributes, for gaming activities, didactic games. | Folder-slider "The role of the father in the upbringing of the child" Purpose: To draw attention to the importance of the role of the father in the upbringing of the child. |
Stage 2 Main
| Social and communicative development Speech development cognitive development Artistic and aesthetic development | Questions session. "We need different dads" Riddles. Exercises for activation of the dictionary and the development of coherent speech: “Name it affectionately”, “Daddy's things”, “Which dad?”, “Daddy's interests”. Didactic games: “All works are good”, “Who needs what for work?” Who is superfluous”, “What does a soldier, sailor, pilot need”, Poetry reading: "Like a dad," Dad's Tale", "Dads are different." Reading: "My family", V. Dragunsky "Cunning way", V. Davydov "Army of the world", S. Marshak "February". Examination of illustrations "Defenders of the Fatherland", depicting military branches and various military equipment. Role-playing games: “Building a Rocket”, “Helping Dad”, “Repair Shop”, “Family”, “Plant”, “Garage”, “Construction”, “Office”. Labor observation of adults (snowplow driver) | Illustrated material on the topic "Defenders of the peaceful sky" A set of pictures "Type of troops" Different kinds military equipment Album Family album "My dad" | Memo for parents "How to raise a defender ..." |
| Physical development | Outdoor games: "Minefield", "Snipers", "Helicopters" finger games: "What will we ride?", "Our friendly family." | ||
| Artistic and aesthetic development | Drawing "Portrait of the Pope". Manual labor " greeting card» Hearing: "Dad can." Music game: "Airplanes" Listening to the sounds of military equipment, march. |
Stage 3 Final
CONCLUSION: A set of actions organized by teachers to implement the project (raising the status of the father in the family, expanding children's knowledge about the defenders of the fatherland) has a positive result. Children have developed a system of knowledge about the family, family values, about those who guard and defend our Motherland, about ways of showing their feelings to others. The interaction of parents and children contributed to emotional rapprochement, getting parents and children the experience of partnerships through joint activities.
Application No. 1.
Reminder for parents
"HOW TO GROW A DEFENDER?"
Dear dads, remember!
The boy wants to be good, but does not like being punished directly, he is annoyed by words! Educate by deed and personal example!
If the father is always dissatisfied, impatient and irritable towards his son, the boy will experience insecurity and awkwardness not only in his company, but also among men and boys.
The boy needs the experience of success. He can buy it with your help. Create, invent situations for your son, where he will undoubtedly succeed. Notice the success of your son, praise him.
If you want to achieve something from your son, you need to instill it in him, which means that it is best to “infect” with your work. You can only achieve what you do yourself.
Boys, no less than girls, need parental affection and bodily contact with them. A father can pat a teenager on the shoulder, push him around, fight. Children who regularly see displays of love and affection from their parents have a more developed sense of inner security. Father and son must have their own male secrets. Joint walks, hobbies, fishing, etc. make the son feel that he is "my boyfriend".
Annex 2
creative works children "Portrait of dad"
There is an opinion that men remain children for life, only their toys become more expensive. Maybe that's why kids love spending time with dads so much - they just speak the same language. Dad will teach, and tell, and fix, and break it again to see "where did this extra detail come from."
The son imitates his father and wants (or categorically does not want) to be like him. And for the daughter, the father is an example of what should be a real man and what is his role in the family. But dads are different. What type of father is your baby?
1. Dad friend. He communicates with the child on an equal footing, takes part in his games with pleasure, is always ready to listen to him, reasonably explains his prohibitions and is determined to peacefully resolve conflicts.
2. Papa is a judge.Any mistake will be noticed and publicly condemned. Notations, instructions, and sometimes swearing are the main form of communication with a child.
3. Father-breadwinner. His main concern is daily bread. It is very important for him that the house was a “full bowl”. But games with a child, upbringing and household chores, he completely delegates to his wife.
4. Father is a psychotherapist. He always tries to be objective. Differs in endurance, a sober view of the situation and rationality of judgments. The main method of education is talking with the child. Usually gives good advice to which the child tends to listen.
5. Dad-mom.With pleasure to take care of the child: gets up at night, changes diapers, bathes and cooks porridge. His main concern is to make the child happy, so the children of such dads often have problems with discipline.
6. Karabas-Barabas. The only form of education available to such a father is pressure on the child and aggression. Such a dad is usually scared: "If you behave badly, I'll tell my father."
7. Jumper-dragonfly. He misses his former free life very much. The family weighs on him, the children strain him. He married, most likely, "on a flight." He does not want to be responsible for his wife or children. There is no emotional attachment to them.
8. Boyfriend shirt. Another child in the family. Relationships with children are good, as he is always ready to fool around with them, play football and fly a helicopter. He, rather, performs the function of a friend or older brother, rather than a father. Conflicts often arise with the wife on the basis of discipline and lack of responsibility.
9. Die hard. He believes that his opinion is the only correct one. He does not accept compromises and the last word must always remain behind him, on the simple ground that he is a man.
10. Neither fish nor meat. This is a dad who does not decide anything in the family. The wife treats him with no respect, and the same form of communication is instilled in the children from the very beginning. Relations with children usually do not add up, since such a dad is not able to provide them with a basic sense of security either in the family or in society.
